Discover how motivation and positive thinking can help you achieve what you want
Motivation, according to Wikipedia.com, is "the set of reasons that determines one to engage in a particular behavior".
Generally speaking, when we say that we are not motivated to do something, we mean that we don't feel like doing it or that we don't find any reason that would make us want to do it.
Motivation and positive thinking make a difference on facing fears, on keeping on doing what you are busy with, and on taking up new challenges.
Motivation can even help you to keep on working hard at your job. Check out these positive quotes for the work place, these affirmations for the work place or this list of eleven reasons to go to work.
I distinguish between two types of motivation:
In this second group I also include things that we don't really want to do but that are the path to a goal that we do want to achieve, such as exercising in order to lose weight.
For example, your goal may be to be thinner, but you may not necessarily want to actually exercise every day for fifteen minutes.
I have used motivation and positive thinking to reach different goals.
It is much easier to get on to doing anything when you clearly know the reasons why you want to do it and you can identify the benefit you'll get when you achieve your goal.
The following steps combine motivation and positive thinking:
For some of us, motivation and positive thinking work well together when used in a visual format.
That is why some people choose to make a little drawing, even if symbolic, of that which they want to achieve, and have it on sight in their bedroom.
At a certain time of my life when I was focused on achieving goals in several areas (like relationships, work, money, health, or creativity, among others) I did a little drawing that would show me at a glance what I was working towards. In this way I also created my own positive images.
Motivational posters also serve to find our inner core of motivation and strength. Follow the link to find motivational posters at Art.com.
The book 'The path of least resistance' by Robert Fritz gave me an insight on how to keep motivated to achieve anything.
This book comes to explain that the main thought pattern that we have oscillates between extremes (I'm summing this up for you very quickly, but the book really goes in depth about it in a very insightful way).
That is why we don't seem to achieve goals, because we go from pushing towards a goal to pulling away from it, back and forth all the time.
Robert Fritz proposes a different thought pattern that I found extremely useful, which is that of the creative people. Fritz explains that there is a certain tension between the reality we see and the reality we want.
This tension or difference between realities, far from discouraging, can be used to our convenience no matter the circumstances:
From my point of view, this is a way of combining motivation and positive thinking because it holds the belief that if you work towards your goals, you'll achieve them - which includes a positive attitude towards yourself and what you can do.
This new thought pattern that Fritz proposes follows these easy steps, and it can be applied to anything:
I followed these steps for a number of things in different areas of my life with success. Like magic, it does make you discover a well of motivation and positive thinking.
This friend, whom I will call John, was busy preparing his thesis for a higher degree, and worked as a customer service agent to pay the bills. His end goal was to obtain a post at the university he was doing the research for.
One day he got fired from his job. He couldn't really understand why, as he thought he had always done a good job, so he asked his manager.
His boss explained that John was in fact a very good customer service agent, but due to company regulations they had to fire a number of people. It really didn't have anything to do with him.
John felt quite let down by the company and "the system", and questioned whether it was worth to keep on writing his thesis. He lost his motivation for a while.
At that time he came across some positive thinking books, and chose to change his point of view about the whole event. He decided that the fact that he had been fired was not so bad after all, because it contained positive facts.
He had gained good experience in the field of customer service and could look for a better job with something to show in his CV.
Furthermore, he realized that until he found another job he would have more time for his thesis, which would bring him closer to what he really wanted.
Combining motivation and positive thinking, John actually decided to see the event of being fired as a very good thing, and kept on writing his thesis.
The best thing was that within three weeks he was called from the same job for a permanent position. He decided to see that in a positive way, too!
As you see in the story above, you can combine motivation and positive thinking to help you achieve a desired goal. In the end, keeping yourself motivated is entirely up to you. Help yourself to a motivation quote.
Motivation and positive thinking have a lot to do with the attitude you choose to have towards life.
"The current reality is always your new starting point."
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