Negative Thoughts

When you're on your path of creating your own reality and you have read about and use positive thinking, it can be quite frustrating to realize that you're still having negative thoughts.

For instance: this is me, having a good job, a wonderful and supportive husband, my family is well, I've got money, I've got health... yet I'm walking down the street and my mind has its own string of thoughts:

...and on, and on, and on. You've most likely experienced a sort of chain of negative thoughts going on in your mind in a similar line - without you seemingly doing anything at all, you're bombarded with negative thinking.

Besides, you know that if you just "buy" into the negative thinking you'll end up feeling quite miserable - which you know you don't want. All of a sudden you're even feeling guilty for not feeling good.

So... what do you do?

Take the shortcut at this point and read about how to eliminate negative thoughts...

...or keep on reading for some exploring of negative thinking.

Over the years I've been interested in two things mainly, in this regard: why we have negative thoughts (or where they come from) and what we can do about them.

As to why we have negative thoughts, certain things play an important role, such as our culture, our beliefs in life and in a god or absence of it, our upbringing, our surroundings... even things like coming into winter time can affect our mood.

As to what to do about negative thinking...

First of all, we don't have to do anything about them. We can do something about them if we want to. But we can also accept that we're just plainly having negative thoughts, and let it be that way.

I personally like feeling good, and that's why I strive to change my thoughts if they don't make me feel good.

But how about if you've tried it all, and nothing seems to work, or at least no more than for a few moments?

At this point, the one thing I've found that does work is to love myself fully: to accept myself just as I'm being, negative thinking and all, and to recognize that I am doing my best. I truly am.

When I can find the spot where I can accept and love myself fully, and surrender to who I am at that moment without having to change myself, then the negative thinking starts to disappear silently.

Then, hope and calm return to me, and then - only once after I've accepted myself fully - it feels easy to focus on the positive aspects of life again.

Other times, changing negative thoughts becomes a fun thing to do - as demonstrated by Deb through her ebook "Resistance Toys: Clever Distractions Designed to Change Your Mind One Neuropathway at a Time".

This special ebook showed me a very interesting approach to changing negative patterns of thought - an approach that does work, because it engages the part of our brain which is concerned with creativity and play.

Check "Resistance Toys: Clever Distractions Designed to Change Your Mind One Neuropathway at a Time" today!

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