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I take that since you are reading this site, you are interested in positive thinking and in getting a better life through it (if you have any doubts of whether positive thinking works, check this page: Does positive thinking work?).
You may even want to acquire a lasting positive attitude. So...
There is you, choosing to be a positive thinker, going out to the world and doing it.
Then some bad news come in, or you seem to have a difficult day, and the positive thinking goes down the drain.
Is everything lost?
No, not really, no need to be hard on yourself. Your positive attitude is still there, but it is simply hidden temporarily. It is waiting for you to grab it again (for extreme situations you can check these tips on survival positive thinking).
Resilient positive thinking grows from persistence.
It means that when you realize that you have been feeling negative, you pick yourself up and choose to be positive again.
No shame. Only courage. You fall? What are you waiting for, get up again!
Accept that we all make mistakes and that we cannot be perfect 100% of the time. The point is not to be positive all the time, anyway.
The point is to benefit from your own positive thinking as much as you can (and enjoy the ride!), and get back to it whenever you feel you are off track.
Build your resilience with these positive I statements, have a look at these positive thinking ideas, or choose a powerful positive thinking quote.
Be a phoenix bird
When you are determined to enjoy positive thinking you are a bit like the phoenix bird, which is reborn from its own ashes.
You go on, fall, get up again with even more strength, and the pure action reinforces your resilient positive thinking.
While all that happens, you also get to learn better how to build resilience, and you are able more and more to remain positive in negative circumstances.
If you truly want to make yourself a much more positive and stress-free person, then decide that you will do your best to deal with any situation that comes along.
You could use these positive thinking daily affirmations or this positive attitude tip to support you.
You also need to move on
Don't dwell on temporary negative circumstances. Learn to deal with worries and then focus your mind on the next step you want to take for yourself.
Thinking about oneself and getting back to one's own projects is a great tool to build resilient positive thinking.
When you focus on what you want to accomplish, you create in yourself a sense of worthiness and purpose, which generates good, positive energy.
This energy is your fuel.
The better you feel with your life, yourself and what you do, the easier it is to build resilient positive thinking that will help you in difficult circumstances (find out more about the importance of the positive feeling).
This is a step for maintaining a positive attitude.
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You can also start developing a resilient positive attitude with the help of the Holosync program.
Through a number of soundtracks, this program helps you become more and more aware of yourself and the way you react to circumstances, so that you are able to choose more easily the attitude you want to have.
Little by little, those "buried issues" of yours come to the surface, allowing you to face them from a higher point of view, thus being able to choose a permanent attitude towards them which brings you more peace overall.
Find out more about Holosync.
Another very useful program to help you build resilience and a positive attitude is Affirmation Ticker.
This handy software places a bar across the top of your computer screen, in which affirmations of your choice scroll by. You can be busy with whatever else at your computer, and your mind will be "reading" the affirmations without you realizing.
Check it out! Well worth it.
If you are a Christian, you can build resilient positive thinking through your religious beliefs, as explained by Norman Vincent Peale in his classic "The power of positive thinking".
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