A Decoder!

by Munawara Sultana
(Pakistan)


She is not listening to me. He is not doing the right thing. This person is following the ego. That person is having a big pain body. Why can't they learn the right and peaceful way of communication?

These were all my complaints until I thought,
"How about trying to develop a decoder and translate what the others are actually saying instead of expecting them to learn my favorite way of communication?"

For instance, I observed some of my colleagues can not ask for help if they need it; instead, they become irritable and bitter. So it's their expression of asking for help (as it's decoded by my decoder).

Kindness and understanding make others feel secure and easy to open up. It adds to the collective well being of the humanity.

I am into using my decoder more frequently for the sake of having more Peace in me and in the universe.

How about you? :)

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Sep 10, 2009
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starstarstarstarstar 		Thanks :)
by: Munawara

Thanks Abu for this wonderful analysis. You are always an inspiration for me. Your words and actions guided me all along :)
Sep 10, 2009
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starstarstarstarstar 		inspiring
by: Munawar

Some are loner by nature. It is said ‘lonely are brave’. Others thrive in company. Both have once common compulsion, a need of other to survive, to share, to progress and to relax. Only degree of need varies in space and time. Consistent factor in sociability, however, remains ‘compromise’. What one must weigh is the advantage or otherwise of a compromise to self and society.
Sep 09, 2009
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starstarstarstarstar 		wow
by: sadiqa

wow awesome really superb. im inspired.
Sep 08, 2009
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starstarstarstarstar 		Best wishes :)
by: Munawara

This concept of decoder helped me to reach at the bottom of the situations without unnecessary loss of energy on superficial words and expressions. So its much easier to decide what is right to do. Best wishes to all :)
Sep 08, 2009
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starstarstarstarstar 		I say Yes to a decoder! :-)
by: Cristina

Munawara, that's a great idea - I think I'm going to tune in to my decoder more often too - wouldn't that make for a greater understanding and, as you well say, Peace in ourselves and in the universe?
Thank you for posting that :-)

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